feat: block running commands / proxying when system is being deleted

Large systems take way too long to delete, which causes any insert for that system to block a connection, which exhausts the connection pool

PluralKit.Core/Database/Utils/DatabaseMigrator.cs

@@ -9,7 +9,7 @@ namespace PluralKit.Core;
 internal class DatabaseMigrator
 {
     private const string RootPath = "PluralKit.Core.Database"; // "resource path" root for SQL files
-    private const int TargetSchemaVersion = 28;
+    private const int TargetSchemaVersion = 29;
     private readonly ILogger _logger;
 
     public DatabaseMigrator(ILogger logger)